Gay Golden Globes
It was a very gay night in Hollywood. Okay technically Beverly Hills. The Golden Globes was a night to celebrate Gays and lesbians. With a… Read More »Gay Golden Globes
bullying
Here is my It Get’s Better video
We are still remembering the young people who died because they were bullied. Some committed Suicide and were driven to relieve the pain of humiliation… Read More »Here is my It Get’s Better video
McCance resigns on Anderson Cooper:
Clint McCance an Arkansas School Board member resigned over his blatant homophobia and threats against gay people made on his Facebook page. Anderson Cooper of… Read More »McCance resigns on Anderson Cooper:
A midrash about Noah
Shabbat Noach Genesis 6:9-11:2 A Midrash: The earth became a wicked place. People were harsh to one another. They spoke cruelly. They stole from one… Read More »A midrash about Noah
Bullying in New Jersey
This is a letter to the Publisher of the Jewish Standard who recently succumbed to pressure from the Orthodox community to retract gay and lesbian… Read More »Bullying in New Jersey
Don’t forget the young people
Don’t forget to show up tonight for the young people who were bullied to death. The rash of recent suicides because young people were bullied… Read More »Don’t forget the young people
Take the Pledge
Keshet in Boston put together this incredible list of Jewish community endorsers of this important anti-bullying pledge for Jewish communal institutions and individuals. Can you take… Read More »Take the Pledge
Still In Shock
I guess I am still in shock about Tyler Clementi. Or I am In shock that two fellow college students would violate another person’s privacy… Read More »Still In Shock
Gay Teens and Suicide–is it Murder?
Suicide in Judaism is forbidden. It violates one of the most important principles therefore choose Life. I wrote about this idea in my Yom Kippur Morning Sermon. Choosing life ought to inform our decision-making. And Suicide violates that principle. As does murder.
All suicide is tragic but the four gay young people who committed suicide in the last few days were particularly devastating. These young people had everything to live for including a world that is increasingly a place of equality for gay and lesbian folks. And yet there is still stigma for being gay.
The truth is teen suicide especially as the result of bullying is at epidemic proportions. 1 in 3 gay teen attempt suicide. Young people are harassed even for the perception of being gay or lesbian.
Young Seth Walsh, a seventh grader, was bullied and hung himself. His funeral is today in Tehachapi.
Young Asher Brown of Texas another 13-year-old shot himself to death. He had been so sad about the incessant bullying and teasing by fellow classmates. 
And college freshman Tyler Clementi jumped off the George Washington Bridge so humiliated by the web broadcast of his sexual encounter by his roommates at Rutgers.
And15 year old Billy Lucas of Indiana was tormented by his classmates regularly. He hung himself in his family’s barn.
These weren’t suicides. In each case this was nothing short of murder. Judaism also forbids Murder.
The first week of October is National Bullying Prevention Month. We adults need to make sure that the word gets out. Here is information about this month.
The Trevor Project is a 24 hour hotline and suicide prevention line for LGBT and Questioning Youth. They have amazing suicide prevention resources.
GLSEN, the Gay and Lesbian and Straight Educators Network also has incredible resources in this area. They have been leading the way working to introduce federal anti-bullying legislation. The Safe Schools Improvement Act (HR 2262 and S3739). There are 118 bipartisan co-sponsors of this legislation that will help schools implement anti-bullying policies including federal funding that will help implement and change the culture of teasing and bullying in educational institutions.
These four teen suicides/murders speak to the urgency of the problem. Whether you have kids or not this needs to be a priority for us all. Just like Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, creating a safer environment and a zero-tolerance for bullying ought to be all of our responsibility. What kind of society have we made?
May the memories of Seth, Tyler, Aaron, and Billy and the countless others be for a blessing.